Spanking & Discipline Switch



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Artemisia de Vine cane corporal Sydney CK waistSwitch Spanking Sessions:    Domestic spanking, discipline and corporal punishment sessions resonate with me in a way that I cannot explain.  I really found my home once I found out there was a domestic spanking scene (as opposed to a BDSM style spanking scene).  It was such a feeling of “Oh here you all are!”  I will be forever grateful to Zoe Montana for introducing me you all.

Sometimes I feel the need to dish out strict discipline and at other times to receive a thorough spanking.  I enjoy switching but do not necessarily have to take both roles in the one session.   Sessions range from the naughty and playful through to the judicial.


Artemisia spanks Zoe MontanaThe Spanker:  As spanker I can be the strict disciplinarian, school principal, boss catching the employee with their hand in the till and many other creative role plays.  I can also just be myself enjoying giving a good thrashing.

Traditional scenes are traditional for a reason.  They tap into something pretty potent within us and meet a need that is difficult to put into words. Sometimes its a bit of naughty fun and other times it is a stress relief or even a purging of the soul.

While my spanking stories tap into the fantasy of role play, in reality there is a much broader spectrum of spanking experiences possible.  Sometimes, one needs a strict, nonsense punishment and other times one needs a sensual build up of intense sensations… intention breathing to ride the pain into pleasure in wave after wave of impact… culminating in a crescendo of cane strokes that tip us over the edge into a blissful, float state of being.  Sometimes one wants to tap into the embarrassment of being punished and being put in place.  Other times one needs to not so much role play, as to tap into a way of spanking that re-lives a formative moment… everything has to be fetishisticly just so… So many lovely nuances to play with!

Artemisia de Vine spanking Sydney lesbian bare bottom CKOTK, hand spanking, taws, cane, paddle, strap, hairbrush, slippering, wooden spoon, petticoating, figging, lines, corner time and more. My collection of equipment is ever-growing.  I am open to new ideas so please do bring up your favorite scenario.

If you enjoy spanking stories I have started a new spanking and discipline erotica section just for you.

Some are written by me and others submitted by clients or other spanking enthusiasts.  Here is one about a me disciplining an errant husband for disrespecting his wife’s cooking.

More Spanking Images in the Discipline Gallery. 


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The Spankee:   I just love being on the receiving end of spanking.  My plump bottom with “English rose” skin is the perfect canvas for pretty red marks.  I am building up my experiences and loving it every step of the way.

I am naturally a strong, intelligent, independent woman who just happens to thoroughly enjoy being spanked.  I can be sassy, playful, pouty and sometimes a naughty little minx.  I like the stings more than the thuds but can take both.  Sometimes taking a sensation I dread is just the ticket leaving me ecstatic, floaty and giggly or even teary and a little sooky, but in a good way.

Spankee Artemisia

Spankee Artemisia

As a spankee I enjoy role play scenarios including but not limited to lazy secretary or errant wife, sometimes school girl sent to the principle’s office…   There is something delicious about a firm hand putting me in my place and the humiliation of being bent over with my skirts hiked up ready to receive my just desserts.   Why do I like this?  I really don’t know, but I do.  I also enjoy naughty games of cards or snakes and ladders where the loser of each round gets a spanking.   Whether it is a serious or playful session, I am hooked!

Lady spanked mirrorIMG_7257-2 copyAs much as I love checking the progress of my bruises in the mirror and enjoying them as reminders of fun times, I do work in a variety of areas where the appearance of my bottom is important to my income.  This means all marking needs to be negotiated.   Some times I am able to carry more marks than others.

Spanking sessions are not the same as BDSM sessions and different financial and practical arrangements apply.  I prefer a leisurely 90min-2hr session and do not watch the clock.  I let the play unfold as it needs to.  We enjoy a cup of tea and a chat together so we can natter about all things spanking.

Disciplining you only: $400, 90mins

Switch or me as Spankee: from $500, 2hrs  (marking negotiated)

More Spanking Images in the Discipline Gallery. 

spanking implimentsTantric Spanking:  Here is an area of spanking where I break with tradition and enter the more esoteric realms.  Spanking naturally takes us to a place where the veil between the conscious and unconscious mind is thin.  It naturally takes us to a meditative, trancy, floaty kind of altered state of consciousness that has the potential to be quite ecstatic and profound.  I enjoy taking advantage of this opportunity by utalising techniques and skills drawn from tantra and other similar traditions to add fuel to that fire.   It takes the experience up several notches.  It means that instead of accidentally stumbling on the ecstasy and moments of Mystery possible through spanking we intentionally go there and ride it proactively.  It’s about becoming aware of the potential states of consciousness and actively exploring them to discover what is there.

traditional canes discipline spanking Mistress Sydney logoEach person is different in how they respond to this and indeed each session with the same person leads to different experiences.  Some people find they go far deeper into ecstatic and/or erotic trance states that have all the same benefits as having meditated for hours.  Others experience this as a spiritual experience, feel re-booted on all levels, gain personal insights, growth and transformation.  Still others commune with their personal concept of divinity and access an embodied experience of their own divinity.  It almost always leads to a deeper authentic relationship with the self and often with our loved ones… in fact with all of Existence.

For those already esoterically inclined, we can utalise the rhythmic, trance inducing spanking of pleasure-pain in a ritualistic or ceremonial way, with a clear intention of what we are aiming to experience or explore.  We can add other techniques and forms of ceremony that take the journey deeper.  Contact me to discuss and we can work out the best way of going about it for you.

This session needs to be a 2 hour session (give or take according to the natural flow) and includes teaching you tools and techniques to use on your journey and time to float and experience the states of consciousness.  This session is $500.

 canesWorkshops and Tantric Spanking Circles:  Alternatively I run workshops on this that go far more in depth in teaching the techniques   For those who become as hooked as I am, I run tantric spanking circles or ceremonies for those who have already been trained in the techniques and want an opportunity to practice.  You will need to provide your own spanking partner or be partnered up for this one.   Please join my mailing list to find out about upcoming events or contact me to organise a workshop in your area.

From Left to Right: Artemisia de Vine, Harper, Zoe Montana aka Helena May & Molly Malone

From Left to Right: Artemisia de Vine, Harper, Zoe Montana aka Helena May & Molly Malone