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Recommended BDSM, Kink and/or Tantra Practitioners. 

Artemisia de Vine: My other hat as “Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner” : more sensual sessions – Tantric, Kinky and Anal Massage.

Fleur de Lys:  Sydney-based.  “Australia’s finest professional purveyor of kink”.    Escort and skilled BDSM practitioner.

Mistress Tokyo:  Sydney-based highly respected Mistress and fetishist with an intuitive and intense play style.  Recommended for latex, BS and medical play amongst other specialties.

Electra Amore:  Sydney-based Mistress of sensation play, who dances with your shadows and leads you down a path of inhibited forms of sensations of pleasure and/or pain.

Mistress Penelope: Sydney-based professional Dominatrix,  filthy pervert, authentic Alpha Female.

Helena May: Melbourne-based kinky escort with a huge range of skills and experience.  Spanking, Anal play, Ecosex, Role Play, BDSM & sex.  Tailored experiences.

Gala Vanting:  Sydney-based Switch.  Creative, intelligent kink play that draws on aspects of tantra.

Charlotte Sway: Melbourne-based fetish escort creating exquisite personalised erotic theatre.  Also a sexological bodyworker.

Zoe Montana: Melbourne-based, internationally renown spanking model switch and spankee as seen on Dreams of Spanking.  Zoe’s new website is soon to be launched but in the meantime you can contact her at

Amara Dolce: Cairns and Darwin-based: Experienced, creative and truly wicked, old-school Mistress.

Shelly: Sydney-based sensual spanker.

UK  and Europe based:

Ruby May:  Berlin-based. Working with alchemy and eros: consciously exploring kink and sexuality.  Workshops and one-on-one sessions.   Website here.  

Molly Malone: The fabulous and very naughty spanking model based in London, UK but will be in Australia semi regularly.


Australian based Kink-friendly Therapists and Counsellors

Catherine Carter: Melbourne-based, transpersonal psychotherapist and counsellor, dedicated promoter of conscious sexuality, sensuality and feminine energy work.  Skype sessions available.
Cyndi Darnell: Melbourne-based sex therapist and educator, workshop facilitator, relationship and sexual health counsellor, sex coach, event co-ordinator, sexologist, and public speaker.  Skype sessions available.
Tanya Koens: Sydney-based, Holistic counselling and sex therapy, conscious sex and authentic relating. Kink friendly.
Emma M Dixon: Sydney-based sexuality educator, intimacy coach, and bodyworker.

Shelly: Sydney-based sexological bodyworker and psychotherapist. 
Dragan Zan Wright: Newtown, Sydney. Psychotherapist/Counsellor. National facilitator and educator. Gender diversity, exploration of sexual identity, childhood trauma including sexual abuse, workshops, public speaking.

USA based:

Galen Fous:  MTP – Fetish Sex Expert, Therapist, Sex Researcher: Expert advice, education and guidence in consciously embracing your fetish sexuality, Ds-BDSM and kink desires. International skype sessions available.


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