The first question you need to ask yourself is, do you want to see Me to explore your own kinks or do you wish to experience putting aside all your own desires in order to submit to Mine?
Let Me be clear, neither of these are wrong. In both cases, I will genuinely be dominant. The difference is where the focus goes.
Exploring Your Kinky Wiring
Quite often, people have all these lovely kinky desires within them and no avenue with which to explore them. Perhaps they don’t have a partner who shares their kinks, or perhaps their partner doesn’t have training in the relevant art form. This is where play time with a Pro Domme comes in…
However, when applying for a Mistress session with Me, remember that while I am happy to help you explore yourself and am very interested in how you are uniquely wired, I am still very much part of this dynamic. There are two people playing here. I don’t fake being Dominant.
To make this work, I sit you down in an in-depth consultation and work out all sorts of interesting things about how your erotic psyche works, many of which you will be unaware of yourself. I then create a Dominant and submissive dynamic that draws on these aspects but also takes into account what I want. I find the ground in which we naturally overlap and play there, using your kinky wiring to get responses I desire. It is the resulting D/s feedback loop that transports us both.
Your desire to explore certain things like anal play, bondage, cross dressing, corporal punishment etc can be taken into account in a Mistress session. Of course, there are times of complete submission to My desires within this play too. There is space for both to happen as it needs to.
However, this session never includes intimate body worship. The *only* time I feel good about that sort of play is in the Goddess Worship session.
Submitting to My Desires
Goddess Worship sessions are about entering a place of complete surrender and worship. It is not about what you want at all. You have to be willing to let go of all your own desires to submit to Mine.
This includes letting go of being attached to being aroused. Maybe, what I want won’t arouse you. Maybe it will. That is not the point. The point is, letting your attachment to arousal go, so I am free to be who I truly am in the moment and can express Myself unhindered.
I do listen to your limits and respect them and we still use safe words but within that framework, this session is ALL ABOUT ME. I don’t know what I will want to do until I want to do it. I listen to My body and My desires from moment to moment and you become a living sacrifice on My altar.
Your job is to submit utterly in worship. That is it. Nothing else. Simple yet really challenging and unspeakably profound once achieved.
This session is the only time I enjoy intimate body worship. However, there is still no guarantee that you will get to touch Me at all. Remember there is a massive difference between Goddess Worship and objectification. If I don’t feel it, I don’t do it. I can choose to make you stand in the corner the entire session if I choose. Or I could want to do some other BDSM activity entirely. It is up to Me and you are to be grateful for any experience that comes your way.
Let go of expectations. You won’t get what you want because it is NOT ABOUT YOU.
Why would someone book this session?
Well, true submission transports a person. One cannot describe it. Furthermore, this is the *only* way that you can ever be let into the inner most intimate sphere of this Mistress. The holy of holies.
Most submissives start by submitting to take. That is, to get their own submissive needs met. Don’t get me wrong, it is ok to have submissive needs and to find someone you can explore them with. However, to then graduate into submitting to give… That is next level again. That is where one truly begins to experience the Mysteries of Dominant Goddess Worship.
There is no other way to get there than utter surrender. You cannot fool the deep psyche. It knows. I can also feel it if you are making it about you instead of making it about Me. You will never experience those Mysteries unless you let go completely.