My name is Artemisia de Vine and I am a Sydney-based sex worker who specialises in the conscious erotic arts with a greedy appreciation for the deeply sensual through to the utterly kinky. I am a classically trained BDSM, kink & fetish professional as well as a domestic spanking & discipline switch, erotic massage and conscious sex practitioner and occasional GFE (girlfriend experience) escort. I am often asked why my sessions are so deliciously unique and seem to satisfy on such a deep level.
My Philosophy is that we can use our sexuality for escapism or for self discovery. I choose to focus on the later. If we approach our adult play time with awareness, a sense of open curiosity, bringing our whole selves to the table, our sexuality is not only deeply satisfying but an avenue to discover ourselves. In some cases this leads to profound personal growth and transformation as we step more fully into our whole being.
The best way I have found to go about this, is through following our erotic cookie crumbs through our inner landscapes and express this with lusty play. Fun, real and sexy as hell!
The primary reason for my sessions is not therapy though often there are therapeutic side effects. The reason is because we are inherently sexual beings. So much of the world fears sex because it truly is powerful. It has the potential to be destructive or incredibly beautiful. It can lead us home to ourselves. By owning our sexuality, all of it, secret dark corners in our minds as well as loving lushness, we create a conscious relationship with ourselves and our lovers. I am fascinated with how consensual exploration of the full spectrum of erotic possibilities within us with can not only be incredibly hot but can lead us home to ourselves and make us whole.
My Sessions Suit those who sense there is something more to sexuality and yearn for a skilled, open-minded companion to play, explore and discover with. I create spaces where you can be just who you need to be in the moment. You do not need to worry that I will impose kink on you if you are a sensual being or vise versa.
The focus is helping you uncover who you really are as an erotic being once the socially prescribed sexual scripts fall away. I design sessions around your unique erotic “fingerprint” in conjunction with my own erotic wiring. I find sessions are just so much more satisfying for both of us if we take the time to find where we naturally overlap and play in that zone. Clearly there are some things I am not drawn to so will recommend other practitioners if necessary.
My sessions focus on the journey, not just the destination so I recommend a minimum of a 2hr booking.
But Where to Start? Initially we just chat on the phone for a few minutes to get to know each other and feel into whether or not we are compatible. If it feels right we arrange a booking.
In order to create the place for authentic sexual expression, I offer a consultation process as part of the booking. I ask questions that draw out things you may not even be aware of about yourself, make suggestions of things you might like to explore with me and teach you simple but effective techniques to aid you in dropping down into the experience more fully. The more we approach sexuality with awareness the more we can fully turn up with all of ourselves. The erotic is so much more fulfilling when we open and include the physical & the psychosexual.
This in-depth consultation is part of discovering just who you are and what is erotically possible for you. It is about arming you with the skills needed to get the most out of our play time. It is also part of allowing the time get out of our heads and into our bodies, peel back the layers and allow our (not always conscious) desires come to the fore. As such it is part of the session and is best done leading into play time.
However skype session consultations are possible if you prefer. They cost $150, which is taken off the price of your booking should you choose to go ahead.
Which Session is for me?
I have two websites, for the sensual erotic arts and one for my kinky side. You may not fit neatly into any of the below categories and that’s ok. We can work design something especially for you in our consultation. However below is a summary of the different aspects of me to give you an idea of the types of sessions I enjoy.
Mistress: No mere dabbler in BDSM, I am a classically trained Mistress who has dedicated over ten years to perfecting her art. I can be wickedly playful, sensually enticing or strict and sadistic depending on my whim. Either way I will ignite your senses and crawl under your skin, deep within your psyche. I take charge with an elegant, cat-like grace and confidence born of natural dominance, intelligent perception and a deep knowledge of the hidden world of dark fantasies. I delight in pulling your strings and making you dance to my tune… to the tune that is also reflected deep within you… I love that unmasked moment of surrender, where you cannot be anything but your true self. Witnessed, held, taken…
Check out my blog for stories about the kinds of sessions I get up to. See the variety of BDSM sessions available.
Note: Mistress sessions are not full service.
Kinky Role Play: I love to explore just what fabulous madness is possible when we peak under the covers of civilised behavior and nudge our boundaries. I access all the aspects of human nature normally forbidden to us in everyday life, like humiliation, shame, fear, cruelty and power but do so from a place of compassion, consciousness and intension for the holistic well-being of all involved. I am at heart, a kinky shadow worker exploring the ways in which owning our dark side can make us whole.
Besides! Playing with our forbidden fantasies and exploring power can be super hot! Be it Aunt/nephew, Age Play, Boss/Employee, Teacher/student or many more scenarios. Feel free to email me the gist of your fantasies. I generally like being the one in charge but will switch for the right gentleman.
Maybe full service: case by case negotiation and different fees apply depending on content.
Switch/Submissive: For select gentlemen I enjoy switching and taking the submissive or bottom role in kinky play. This may or may not be sexual depending on what we negotiate together. The kinds of sessions I like to switch in are usually role play or discipline sessions however I am open to discussing other possibilities.
(Sex is not the main focus of these session but may be included as an extra towards the end).
Domestic Discipline: Traditional corporal punishment, spanking & discipline sessions have a whole different culture than BDSM. I am pretty mad about every to do with it and happily take the role of either spanker or spankee in these sessions. See more here including my spanking gallery.
Erotic Massage Practitioner: Hot oil… soft, soft breasts… exquisite, full body skin on skin sensuality… surrender to the pleasure of highly skilled touch… My sessions are far more than a “rub and tug”. These sessions are for those that truly want to delve into their eroticism and tantalize the whole being. This sumptuous array of sessions suit those that wish to surrender to full being pleasure, explore deeper and discover even more. Read why my prostate massage sessions are so famous here.
Conscious Sex Companion: Have you ever wished you had a personal, skilled courtesan to explore with? Someone to make your erotic journey the object of their skilled, holistic and compassionate focus? Someone, attractive, friendly, seductive and knowledgable in the conscious erotic arts? Do you have a sense that there is something more to sex but are not sure how to access it? I am part guide to the Mysteries… part lover and playmate… For it is through a combination of conscious exploration and play that we find the treasure… I hold the space, play the role needed, provide the atmosphere and know-how for you to holistically explore your own unique sexual universe. See more here.
Escort (GFE): For for select gentlemen who wish to enjoy a playful, sensual time with me to relax, unwind, explore and treat ourselves to un-rushed pleasure, I offer the girlfriend experience. This session is for those times when you do not want to focus on learning tantra or other conscious erotic exploration but just want to enjoy the company of a warm, friendly voluptuous woman. Time to be held in my soft bosom, stroked skin-on-skin and loved up. Let’s pleasure each other in my erotic oasis. Here is a blog about what it is like on a GFE date with me.
About Me: I have pretty much dedicated my life to the erotic arts. I learn from every sexuality professional and pioneer I can. What do I do with my holidays? Go learn more sex geekery and put it together in creative ways to create experiences and opportunities for explorers of eros. It is my life and my passion and I love nothing more than to help people access their full sexual and/or kinky potential.
I draw on aspects of sexological bodywork, lomilomi, tantra, Taoism, BDSM, somatic psychology and many other mindfully embodied practices.
At a Glance: I am a voluptuous, blonde, 39yo with creamy white skin, luscious G cup breasts and size 16 womanly curves. I stand 5 foot 6 or 166cm without heels. There are galleries on both websites.
Contact: I prefer initial contact to be via a phone chat so we can get a feel for whether or not we are on the same page. However, if you cannot get hold of me, feel free to shoot me a text or email and I will get back to you.
Contact and Fees for Sensual sessions.
Contact and Fees for Kinky sessions.