Oct 172013

Vintage-Spanking-Image 6I taught one of my wonderful regular spanking clients how to incorporate tantric breathing today.

We normally role play domestic spanking scenarios and have a ball together. The boss who takes his secretary in hand for stealing petty cash, hikes up her skirts and gives her a thorough spanking and caning. She then catches him embezzling and has her revenge threefold.

Or perhaps the housewife who spends all her husband’s money and never cooks or cleans gets a firm hand putting her in her place with an OTK (Over the knee) spanking… Only to discover the husband bought a new car with income he had been hiding from her so she takes her revenge.   All the forbidden power play scenarios… We bounce off each other beautifully and both adore spanking so it is a really fun scenario full of squeals, pouty gasps, come backs and stinging slaps, stings and thuds that make us feel so alive.

Tonight we did something a bit different. I taught him how to use breath to move the sensation through the body and we had a much more sensual spanking scenario. Learning a couple of different conscious breathing techniques  adds to the already floaty state of conscious established by the endorphin rush and takes the whole thing up several notches.  Like throwing petrol on the fire…    A beautiful sensual caning scene had us both in a gorgeous, wobbly kneed space where we were grinning like fools and squirming in pleasure-pain with each stroke biting into flesh.  While I sometimes use the cane as a harsh disciplinary tool it can be used in extremely pleasurable ways… Heat kiss on skin…

“I’ve never felt anything like that before!” he said, “That was out of this world! Incredible!” And he doesn’t want to look back… Down the rabbit hole we go… ;)

Note: I want to be clear that Tantra is about far more than just seeking a higher erotic hit.  Tantra is far more holistic than that just as spanking isn’t just about a cutsey role play game.   There is more to it than that.  However, even without a lot of experience, just adding the breathing techniques alone can make quite a dramatic difference to any erotic or endorphin-based experience but it must be noted that is just the beginning of the tantric-spanking journey.  It also must be noted that my style of spanking is not only about the playful side but can also be very intense.  The kind you dread but know will reboot your system.

Oct 172013

butler 2I am munching on marmalade on toast because that is the sort of breakfast a lady would have if she had a personal maid and a butler.  I’ve been watching Miss Fisher’s Murder Mysteries again, and while it is a really badly acted and scripted show, I am addicted to the idea of sashaying about in fabulous fashion, being outrageous and having a maid to run my errands while saying, “Yes Miss” an awful lot.

Yes I do know the difference between reality of service and fantasy but I’m feeling indulgent this morning and letting my girlish imagination out for a romp.

I am constantly approached by folk who want to be my personal slaves or subs but I always turn them away.  In the end, what they want is to take more than what they give.  They are unconscious of it.  They think that being in service to me means me staying in scene role 24/7 and that they get to live out all their dirty little fantasies non stop.  In short, it is really all about them.

Dot-miss-fishers-murder-mysteries-35201301-858-571I like the model of Miss Fisher’s personal staff much better.  Miss Fisher is clearly the head of the house yet does not need to be overtly dominant in every moment to remain so.  She can take lovers… She can be a full, playful, seductive, generous, adventurous, intelligent woman without the need to be strict, though she can be.  Her charm and natural confidence is enough to make her dominant.  She can confide in her staff and they are unequivocally on her side and loyal to her.   I resonate with this model of service a lot.

The maid plays the role of the personal assistant to a tee, helping Miss Fisher in domestic, professional and social arenas.  She plays companion and support to anything Miss Fisher takes a fancy to.   This is my idea of the perfect maid.  Easy to get along with and helpful yet clearly she is in the submissive role.  In return, Miss Fisher is generous and helps her maid develop.  The maid is looked after and cared for in her role as a valued member of the household.

coffeeteaservice1The butler is just so tuned in.  I like that he is in service and spends days noticing all the little things that make his Mistress’ day easier.   He stays out of the way, not needy, always there to meet her needs in an almost fatherly way, yet still subservient… No need to be a sniveling, groveling energy vampire.  He keeps his dignity and easy manner but is committed to service.   In return he is considered part of the family.

Now that is my type of personal service staff!

Don’t get me wrong, humiliation play scenes with the full sniveling, groveling slave persona can be a lot of fun in a scene.  I can get right into that sort of game.  However, it is not something I want to enact every moment of every day.

So take note anyone hoping to be in personal service to me.  To be a successful applicant you need to be someone I actually enjoy and benefit from when you are in my personal space.  You would need to study the art of being an exceptional maid or butler.  The gender of the person isn’t important, it’s the archetypal role that matters.  Of course there would be ongoing training and personal development in these roles.  The right person would also get to be used in my kinky experiments from time to time.

For those who cannot commit to service in an ongoing basis but would like the experience then I do offer service staff training sessions where you can be in service for the day.  This can include far more formal service training than the casual version mentioned above.   I am looking to hold high tea service parties in the future and those trained may be offered the opportunity to serve at those.  Contact me for details or subscribe to my newletter for updates.


Oct 122013

vintage spanking 3I am a spanking enthusiast based in Sydney, Australia.  I thoroughly enjoy the role of spanker and spankee.  There doesn’t appear to be much of a traditional spanking scene in Australia and I intend to remedy that with my fabulous spanking enthusiast colleagues.

There is something truly, wickedly divine about a spanking.  I simply adore being both a spanker and a spankee.  I love everything about it.  The nervous anticipation… the playfulness… the sternness… the lovely floaty trance inducing rhythmic spanking… and the shock of the harsh punishment spankings… paddles… canes… taws… hand spanking… OTK (over the knee) and more.   I love the red, tender welts that serve as a reminder…  The embarrassment of being put-in-line… The thrill of exploring power over each other.

Each spanking session has its own flavor but there are a few that stand out as worth mentioning.

One of my favorite playmates and I really enjoy exploring the role play of boss who has caught his secretary stealing from petty cash… She can be fired or she can save her job and take a sound spanking followed by six of the best cane strokes.   Blushing and protesting she bends over his knee for a long hand spanking… Skirts hiked up and panties down…  The humiliation of it is quite delicious.  Then, when she is thoroughly warmed up, she is striped naked and made to bend over the desk to take the paddle, strap and finally the cane.  It is an intoxicating mix of pleasure and pain.

Vintage-Spanking-Image 6However when this is done, the secretary realises that actually the boss has been embezzling money which is a far worse crime.  She uses this information to turn the tables on him in a sizzling scene where she gives far more punishment than she gets and won’t stop until she gets a pay rise.   Oh boy does the boss regret his earlier degradation of her as he is forced to take everything she dishes out or be publicly outed and possibly face jail time.   It is a terribly fun game of humiliation and revenge, giggles and banter and squeals as cane bites flesh.
Another favorite is playing card games or board games like snakes and ladders.  Who ever loses gets the next spanking.   School student being disciplined in the principle’s office is another fun game…  Over the chair, touch your toes… Thwack, thwack, thwack!

Here is a tale I wrote out about Paul who is disciplined by his sister-in-law for not appreciating his wife.  Hope you enjoy it!

However, on occasion I do not want any role play at all.  I simply want to float in the genuine pleasure of a rhythmic spanking.   Spanking can actually be used beautifully with tantric techniques to induce an erotic, ecstatic trance.   People have been using pleasure and pain for centuries to carry them into altered states of consciousness for pleasure, ordeal initiations and for spiritual experiences.
I have loved spanking for as long as I can remember.  It is a personal passion.   I think the English tradition of the spankee is truly fabulous and aim to bring something similar to Sydney.  I also plan on exploring a few non traditional ways of exploring too.  As well as my professional sessions, I dream of having spanking parties and events.  I am seriously considering making a few spanking clips in future so stay tuned.  Perhaps even drop me a line to suggest a favorite spanking scenario.

Oct 072013
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Artemisia de Vine

Sensual tantric fisting session this sunny, Sydney afternoon…. Lovely floaty session that drops down and opens deep. Fisting isn’t always about Dominance and submission in an obvious way.  Sometimes it is about opening to something greater than ourselves and surrendering to the bliss.

I do anal fisting in many different ways.  Sometimes as a full on dominatrix archetype and others as a Sensual Goddess archetype.  Today it was about breath work, the full body, hot oil, lomi lomi massage to include the whole being in the process…  Building waves of gentle eroticism and opening deeper… Slow, tantalising external anal massage, prostate massage and then entering in deep with my whole fist.   It was about taking the time to explore the different subtle sensations  possible.   No rush.  Slow down to experience fully then gradually come back with more even full sensual full body touch.   So far gone that you just become the sensations…

Dropping down into this beautiful floaty state means the veil between the conscious and unconscious becomes thin and our psyches naturally align.   All sorts of things shift and move within us if we open to it.  It is a real opportunity to connect more deeply with ourselves and the things about Life that truly matter.   In this sense, anal fisting can be a type of blissful, erotic meditation with all the same holistic benefits.